女人最看重男人的6大品質
紳士風度
Chivalry is not dead! A woman notices whether a man opens the door for her, walks closer to the traffic or pulls out a chair for her when she sits. This is something that separates any man from the pack.
紳士風度並沒有滅亡!女性會注意到是否有男性為她開門、和男性一起走路時男性是否會讓女性走在內側、當她想坐下時男性是否會為她拉出座椅。通過這些能看出來男士是否有紳士風度。
表達自己的情感
A quick web search on relationship woes will reveal that being emotionally unavailable is a disease claiming the lives of many men. If you are a man who is afflicted by this disease, you would do well to seek help immediately! Being a man means being able to share how you feel and not worry about how you‘ll be seen.
在網上快速搜索一下有關戀愛中困境的內容,你會發現很多男人都患有情感表達障礙。如果你是一名患有情感表達障礙的男士,你要立刻尋求幫助!是男人就該能分享自己的感受而不要去擔心別人的想法。
注意細節
Women enjoy a man who pays attention to the small details and can recall them at a much later time. This will win any man huge points! For example, let’s say your woman of interest tells an inconsequential story about lunch with a friend and in passing she mentions the name of the restaurant. Two weeks later you ask her, “How was the restaurant XYZ you went with your friend the other day? I was thinking we should go out for dinner tonight.” A man will be instantly elevated to a level of superhero status, if at a later time, he can remember the small details and demonstrate he was really listening.
女性喜歡那些能注意細節並在稍後能回想起細節的男士。這個特點會為男士贏得超高分! 舉個例子,假如你是名男士,你感興趣的那名女士講述了她和朋友吃午飯的這樣一個無關簡要的故事,在講述的過程中,她提到了那家餐館的名字。兩週後,你問她,“你覺得你那天和朋友一起去的那家XYZ餐館怎麼樣呀?我在想今天晚上我們去哪裏吃飯。” 如果一名男士在一段時間後,還能記起一些細節,就説明他真的是在用心傾聽,他的地位會在瞬間提升到超級英雄那個級別。
真心地讚美和出乎意料地讚美
Yes, she may look great when she is dressed up and you should definitely let her know. But, it is also important to let a woman know just how special she is to you in her day-to-day life. See her laugh, smile or dimple in her cheek and compliment her on it.
當然,如果她打扮了一番,可能看上去很漂亮,你一定要讚美她。但是,讓她知道她每天對你而言有多特別也是相當重要的。看着她大笑、微笑或露出酒窩,並對她加以讚美。
誠實
For any relationship to be successful there must be a sense of trust. Honesty is the glue that holds a relationship together and also an attractive feature. Even when it might not be the most pleasant news to tell a woman, it is better for a man to be open and honest than to tell a lie.
任何一段成功的關係都離不開信任感。誠實不僅能維持彼此間的關係,也相當具有吸引力。雖然有時把實情説出會讓人不愉快,但是對男人而言,公開和誠實比説謊可要好得多。
自信
Confidence is the key to being attractive. It will grab any woman‘s attention. And confidence should not be confused with arrogance, which involves a false sense of self. But, rather being confident involves taking stock in who you are (not what you do)。
要想有吸引力,關鍵是要自信。自信會抓住女性的注意力。但是不要把自信和自大弄混,自大里夾雜着對自我的虛假認識。自信是相信自己(而不是你所做的事情)。
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